Is it appropriate for a woman to make a first move?
Back then, for a woman to approach a man and ask him out was something shocking. Not many women would do it no matter how much they liked they guy. But as time went on, things gradually changed. In this generation, it is totally acceptable for a lady to walk up to a guy and propose a relationship. It's a new norm and in my perspective, I think it's okay to tell someone how you feel, and if you wanna date them, why not? Go for it girl!
Tell me what you think. What are your views on this one? Any experience? Should the woman propose a relationship or that's a man's job?
There's nothing I love more than staying true to yourself and if it means a lady has to approach a niggah she loves then so be it. It's not about her being desperate or anything but it's her being true to herself. This is my fifth relationship whereby I was approached by a lady to be in a relationship with her and yes I didn't agree with her at first but I wanted to know more about her and that thing made me for for her.
ReplyDeleteI may agree with you on that one, nowadays it doesn’t matter who approaches first and its no longer shocking because it has somehow become a normality for women to make the first move.
ReplyDeleteStaying true to yourself is the best thing there is no problem with a woman making a first move
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DeleteAw a matter of fact it could actually be a turn on. We also appreciate knowing we good enough for someone else without the hassle of proposing to "wrong" people. Shoot your shot girl!
ReplyDeleteYes I believe it is okay, you can't live the rest of your life wondering, what if I told him how I feel? If you like someone tell them
ReplyDeleteYes its okay, especially in this world of equality. Gender roles are becoming Null and void.
ReplyDeleteLet me tackle it biblically. When look a the book of Ruth chapter 3, we attest that Ruth initiated the first move to Boaz, after she was advised to do so by her mother in-law Naomi. So it's really not wrong for a lady to make a first move. Note this book was written between 6th-4th centuries BC.
ReplyDeleteThis could be nice we even lose pontential partners, because women have that pride of not sharing their feelings.
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ReplyDeleteFor me i think it is not the matter of being a man or a female to initiate a relationship🤣 and its not a bad thing for a woman to initiate first what matters most is being able to tell that somebody you like them and if the feeling is mutual then go with the flow.
ReplyDeleteWell it really just depends on where you are. Ideally, the make up of our society cannot stomach such an intiative! But I've had the honor of experiencing this beyond our country where such things are a norm.
ReplyDeleteIt is okay. I very much encourage it as a man. Sometimes we miss these hints that women claim they show when they are interested. Then what must happen? Should they give up on someone they like? No. This is the 21'st century. Go after what you want. If he's not interested, we move. Nothing to be ashamed of there.
ReplyDeleteWell I believe we live in the 21st century where anything is possible, we live in a time where you go get what you want so I honestly believe it’s not a problem for a lady to propose a relationship
ReplyDeleteWell like your saying its the 21st century and trully the world is changing i personally believe before a lady makes such a move she should be sure of what she's getting herself into and consider all other factors including the culture around them cause a man's life and belief system are affected by many things and one important thing that i think ladies should study before taking such moves are other relationships on wheather they are successful or what cause wow many relationships that happend or began like that many guy's tend to take advantage of such ladies and play with thier hearts and ohh we got free will so do what you wanna do but know that one day you will be accountable for it.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's a bad thing for a woman to approach a guy because you can't ignore how you feel about someone
ReplyDeleteFemale do not take an initiative in proposing primarily fearing rejection. From my own my own perspective, rejection is part of life. i still feel like people should do what makes them happy no what make another person happy❤❤.
ReplyDeleteIf it's "new normal" then it is really okay either way. Even in ancient times our grandparents practised it through moiketo( a lady would work and help the family of the guy she was attracted to) even though it was verbatic. I personally don't see a problem 🤷😀😀
ReplyDeleteDefinitely! If she has feelings for the man , she should just go for it
ReplyDeleteIt's okay to ask someone out on a first date. "It's okay for women to propose too. Not only is it okay, but it's actually advantageous.
ReplyDeleteWell i think it is ohkay to do so as a lady if your self-esteem allows you.
ReplyDeleteFor me I think it's okay to do
ReplyDeleteI believe times have changed and, old customs need to be flushed down the drain
ReplyDeleteI see no problem whatsoever, I think we live in an open world where one can do whatever,old fashioned ways are long gone! Ladies,must start initiating things or they'll get old waiting!
ReplyDeleteIn today's world, women have the capability and audecity to shoot their shot but we perceive that as being slutty
ReplyDeleteIt's interesting what you are saying because that is just being true to yourself. You're not hiding behind other people's beliefs. If you you don't take care of yourself, who will?
ReplyDeleteIt's not a man's job to propose
ReplyDeleteIt is 21st century after all
It is okay only if its for good intentions not just materialistic advantage.. people get into relationships for wrong reasons and also with high expectations whilst putting in less effort. Self honesty is important
ReplyDeleteI am patiently waiting for a woman to propose to me so that i can turn down what ever offer she is putting on the table
ReplyDeleteIt is a good thing,but to a man it appears as if a woman is desperate. As men we want something challenging not anyone who already have a crush on us or a fling. So i don't find it bad, it's just weird from the men side and it makes as if a man is less capable to be a man in that particular relationship.
ReplyDeleteI believe it does not matter who approaches who first as long as there is respect attached to it...
ReplyDeleteIf you want it then go for it. Nowadays we have to live for happiness not something else
ReplyDeleteFor me, that is too much. I quickly lose interest in someone who made the first move!
ReplyDeleteYes it is because love doesn't choose side. 🙂✌
ReplyDeleteIt's all a matter of going for what you love,so I see nothing wrong in women making first moves
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