It's a Love Affair

Usually, a relationship works from the little things we do. They may seem really small but keep us going.  What's that small but important thing you or your partner does that keeps you guys going strong? 🙃

Ladies, ever met this guy? And guys, can you  tell us the reason for this? 

There is a saying that goes, "women belong in the kitchen". Do you believe a woman's worth is only behind a stove? 

"The importance of privacy in romantic relationships cannot be overstated. When two people share a close bond, it is essential that they feel safe and secure in sharing personal information. A privacy violation can profoundly damage the relationship, leading to trust issues and resentment." stated Stacey. Is it ever okay to keep secrets from your partner? It is okay to snoop through your partner's devices?  

From Steve Harvey's book "Act like a lady, Think like a man", the 90-day dating rule suggests waiting 90 days after you start dating someone to have sex with them. Both men and women can follow the 90-day dating rule as it’s intended to help develop close and long-lasting relationships.  The 90-day dating rule can also help you gain insight into yourself and your needs as well as those of the person you’re dating. Dear readers, what do you think about this? Is it something you can do? 

These are conflicting feelings or emotions towards something or someone. It isn’t always easy sorting out your mixed feelings for someone. Although mixed feelings may make it seem that someone is interested in you, there could be a lot of things that draw them to you, and not all of them are particularly helpful or healthy, resulting in mixed feelings.  How do you deal with mixed emotions? 

Lately, men have gotten into relationships or marriages with women and cheat with other men. It has been a concerning issue for quite some time. What's your take on this one? 

Ladies, men adore being spoiled too, they deserve to be spoiled, told they are handsome, told their efforts are appreciated. If he treats you like a Queen, treat him like a King! Ladies how do you spoil your man? And guys, how do you wanna be spoiled?

 There are different ways people wanna be loved. Some prefer to be public about it, this is where everyone knows your partner, not just your family and friends. You have your partner's pictures on public social media platforms with cute captions like #LOML, #MyRideOrDie etc. On the other hand, there are those that prefer private or low-key relationships. No publicity, just them in their cute little bubble. Now this does not mean nobody knows about it, only a few, selective group of people know about it like close family members and friends.  How do you prefer your relationship? 

There are squabbles in every relationship, fights, tension and sometimes may lead to a break up if not solved. It is not easy to forgive someone who wronged you, depending on the nature of the cause of the tension. In minor cases, it is easy to let things go, but it some cases, it may not be so easy. Bottom line, forgive, for your mental peace. If it was too bad, just walk away.. Sometimes we fail to realise when it's out time to go, forgiving the same mistake over and over again. If they don't grow up, walk away, you're not a nanny. What mistake did your partner do that you felt you couldn't forgive? 

One-sided love is not your fault or theirs, it just is and will always be. You'll drawn in heartache until you find someone who loves you enough to save you from your own sea of tears. Have you ever loved someone who didn't love you back? How did you feel? How did you react to it? 

Mike Tyson recently offered $10 million to a man who will marry his first daughter who has been struggling to find a man. Ladies if you were Mike's daughter, how would you feel or react? And gentlemen, would you marry someone you don't love and barely know for $10 million? 

 Learning your partner's love language is very crucial. That's how the communicate with you. We all give and receive love differently. Your partner may feel they are giving you love but you may not feel it. Maybe their love language is different🤷‍♀️ How do you give love? How do you receive it? How about your partner? How do you communicate?  1. Words of affirmation (Compliments)  2. Physical touch  3. Quality time 4. Acts of service  5. Gift giving 

In the earlier post, a lot of people agreed that a lady can propose a relationship. Today our lady has got her man and now she proposes a date. Our society has made it a norm that a man has to pay for almost everything, provide for the family, protect them too. But times have changed, women are empowered to do things themselves unlike back in the day.  In many instances, men usually take care of the bill, especially when they initiated the date. This time around, the lady took the wheel and asked the guy out. Who pays the bill?